How to Plan the Best Babymoon So You Can Relax Before Your Baby Comes
So let’s talk about the babymoon, peeps! You know what a honeymoon is, don’t you? A babymoon is just that but with less champagne and more prenatal vitamins. I know you’re a soon-to-be parent and I see the writing on the wall — you are bubbling over with excitement, nerves, and, let’s be honest, sleep deprivation. With a baby on the way and impending loss of sleep, it is also an opportune time to escape for some peace and quiet with your significant other.
Planning a babymoon can seem like juggling 12 pacifiers… but don’t worry! Ain’t nobody got time for that! In this article, you will see some tips about planning your family trip: from when to go to which destination to how to feel comfortable and safe in one of the most beautiful getaways ever. Also, I would include a splash of humor in there because, well we all could use a laugh right now. On the reverse of this, grab yourself a suitable seat (and perhaps a snack—you’re pregnant after all!)—with your first pre-baby trip, a.k.a., the best babymoon ever!
In the end, I promise you will be lounging like a pro, as well with just enough of an adventure to make your pre-baby getaway that much more memorable. Let’s get started!
What is a babymoon?
What is a babymoon though? Try having a honeymoon, but instead of a wedding cake, it is pickles and ice cream. This is something that you do with your partner as a special trip to find the last remains of peace and quiet before your world becomes joyful chaos when your bundle of joy makes its debut. Consider it a babymoon… most likely you will want to just chill, catch up with your partner, and maybe have a few bump-focused treatments at the local spa. Not to mention, who does not love a good prenatal massage? Just relax, have a good time with your grandpa, and get ready for the best rollercoaster that ever rolled through in your life 🎢😜 Take it from me because, as crazy as you may think I am, there is some sense amongst my madness and this one last road trip before the diapers and midnight feeding starts in full force is THE ONE!!! When to Take a Babymoon
Suppose you want to make memories that will last—and so does your childless indulgence!—the second trimester (weeks 14 to 28) is generally considered an ideal time for a babymoon. During this time, you have (hopefully) made it past the morning sickness stage and are not too close to your due date that you can no longer travel comfortably.
A Babymoon Travel Package?
Have you ever heard of a babymoon travel package? It’s basically the universe’s gift-to-you vacation package for the soon-to-be parents. Packed with pampering—luxuries like prenatal massages, plush sleeps, and every craving cuisine. Wait. Right, like you wouldn’t love a pillow menu to discover the right one for your constantly fluctuating snooze necessities? A few packages will even include things like breakfast in bed and candlelight dinners (minus the wine, duh). The first time I saw this, I was like, “Hell yes. Count me in!” As it is, I’m all about stress free planning and a bit of pampering, so this sounds ideal to me Believe me, this is totally worth splurging on before your baby tornado arrives!
How to Plan a Babymoon
A babymoon is that mini-adventure you embark on before the even-bigger adventure of parenthood sets in. Details to help you in creating a babymoon that is restful, memorable, and peppered with those little slices of heaven you will look back upon when baby arrives. So, let’s dive in!
Check with your physician before making any travel plans.
Surely, consult with your doctor first. I know seems like an obvious thing, but it is important to have the full blown from your doctor. They have the inside info on what you can and cannot do so that both you and baby are adventure-ready. And it never hurts to get a professional opinion — I mean, Google is good but your doctor is better.
A babymoon should be done during the second trimester
Babymoons: The Second Trimester Sweet Spot Why? Because by then you’re mostly (oh good grief I sound American) ok again and haven’t hit the waddling-like-a-penguin phase. Hey, you’re sitting on so much energy, you feel good, and it’s just the right time to get away. Believe me, that is when you will have the most fun of the trip without first trimester fatigue or third trimester discomfort.
Research travel restrictions while pregnant
However, you will want to double-check the airline rules for pregnant flying before booking those flights. Airlines do have restrictions for the later months of pregnancy,
so the last thing you would want to happen is being turned away at the gate! Keep a doctor’s note that says you are able to fly in your handbag—better safe than sorry!
Make sure the place you are going to is a safe one for pregnant women.
Safety first, folks! Choose a destination that is recognized as pregnancy-friendly. Avoid places rife with the likes of Zika and make certain adequate medical treatment is available, however plausible. Choose a Place with Clean Water, Decent Agriculture Production Capability, and an Easy Approach to Health Care Center
Move as much by walking as you will during the trip
Did you know that sitting for prolonged periods is bad for circulation—and even worse so when you are pregnant? Try to stand up and walk as frequently as feasible. Small walks like these help keep you feeling normal, whether you are on a plane, a train, or just by the pool.
It is important to realise what you can and cannot take on.
This is no time to grab the brass ring. Having the ability to say when your plate is full and not overscheduling yourself. It is okay to relax and have a chill day. This is, after all, a vacation to spend quality time with your partner and not so much about checking things off an over-ambitious bucket list.
If you are travelling overseas, become familiar with your options of food at that destination.
Yes, one of the questions you 100% get to answer is about aversions and cravings for food during pregnancy. Before you depart, scope out the dining scene at your destination. Just make sure there are enough options to choose from that are safe during pregnancy. Plus, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with sneaking a few of your favorite snacks in between!
Do not overlook Get yourself travel insurance
Travel insurance is a must. It is the only catch, and that is not a huge deal to me. Ensure that your policy is equipped with pregnancy-related issues as well and pick up on any exclusions mentioned in the fine print. It is better to be overstocked compared to being taken by surprise.
Take a lot of pictures!
Last but not least, take plenty of photos. Because all of those moments are special ones, and because they grow up so quickly, it will do you good to look back one day. You will do this trip in the not-too-distant future, and remember: the quiet before the storm of babies. And it’s a nice way to keep track of your pregnancy journey as well.
Whether you are the one expecting or you know somebody, that is, planning a babymoon should not be stressful. Now you are good to go for the stress-free and blissful trip. Well, there it is. Now pack those bags and get to have some fun before your baby makes their grand entrance! Bon voyage!
When to Go
The ideal time for your babymoon, well, that part is easy: second trimester all the way. Why? Because 7 months alone is kind of like the sweet spot of pregnancy. I no longer experience morning sickness (thank the heavens!) but also haven’t reached the waddling-like penguin phase. This is when you are getting your groove on, have more energy, and can actually savor the journey. Also, it is a safer and more convenient way to travel. Well then remember those weeks 14-28 in your calendar, get packing, and start pampering yourself before the baby arrives. Believe me, you’ll be thanking yourself later on!
Where to Go for Your Babymoon
Finding the Right Babymoon Destination is Like Selecting the Best Pair of Spanx Comfort comes first, but you need to look good too! And whether you want a sunny beach, a charming city, or a peaceful countryside escape, there’s a place that awaits you.
Sunny Beaches
I know from experience that if you’re like me, the idea of lounging on a hot beach with a mocktail in one hand invites all sorts of paradise into your head.
Destinations such as the Canary Islands or Hawaii make ideal locations to lie out in the sun and enjoy a leisurely walk along the shore. Think about that: the monotonous crashes of waves turning any afternoon minaret—what a paradise!
Charming Cities
If you prefer a more lively atmosphere, try Vienna (Austria) or Barcelona (Spain). Balancing culture, excellent food, and plenty of space to put up your feet, these cities are all ideal for any wanderer weary of the world. Not to mention, nothing is better than walking the immaculate streets of an enchanting city with your loved one at your side and dreaming up endless trips together with your baby.
Serene Countryside
If peace and quiet is your goal, then the countryside may be where you belong. Italy has Tuscany, and England has its countryside full of picturesque views, beautiful stay options, and the perfect environment for a relaxing getaway. Imagine yourself in a country home in a region of rolling hills with vineyards. The relaxation you can only get from a warm bath and a good book.
Adventurous Escapes
For the adventurous souls or those unwilling to forego a slice of their adrenaline-fuelled life, why not take a snowy break in the Dolomites or trek through the scenic Swiss Alps? As long as your activities are pregnancy-safe—nobungee jumping, alright? Those locations are a combination of adventure and relaxation, thus allowing you to have fun and chill at the same time.
Quick Getaways
Because sometimes a long trip just isn’t in the cards. Think of a city near you or even how to stay in the lap of luxury at home. The most important thing is to simply spend quality time with your partner before the baby makes its debut. Seriously, even a few days in a bougie hotel in your own town will revive you.
So, it really all depends on whatever you and your partner are comfortable with. Whether that will be the beach, a city getaway, a mountain trip, or even a nice little spot near your home for some staycation. Make it a place where you can chill, bond, and make those memories beautiful together. Again, this is a time for you to relax and enjoy one another before your life becomes beautifully busy. Happy baby mooning!
Travel to whatever theme you like, sunny beach, city life, or stay in nature.
What to Do on a Babymoon
The goal is simple: relax and enjoy a little quiet time together before the baby comes. To begin with, locate a comfortable place to relax—be it a beach bed, hammock, or cozy hotel room. A—go get a prenatal massage (trust me! Your back will thank you! Have romantic meals that you can actually eat peacefully and consecutively. Chill out, take a leisurely walk, and check out the view (great for baby name conversation). Be sure to take lots of photos — you will want to remember this time (and it’s good practice for all those baby pics you’ll be snapping in no time)
Babymoon Destinations
Babymooning is like picking the right flavor of ice cream—so many tasty ones, you want to try each scoop. To help you with your choice, we have listed the below top 5 babymoon destinations for relaxation, adventure, a little sprinkle of magic.
Isole Canarie (Fuerteventura)
For a break from the cold winter temperatures, Fuerteventura is the place to be for some sun and sand. With white sandy beaches and warm gentle breezes in Tobago, it is great for lounging around and tanning your skin up with some vitamin D. Imagine yourself all curled up in a beach cabana holding some mocktail—divine, isn’t it? It does not matter if you are walking on the sand of one of its beaches or if you are contemplating yet another sunset: Fuerteventura is for sure the best place in Canary Islands to spend a winter sun babymoon.
Vienna, Austria
VIENNA — For a little bit of culture along with your chillaxing, Vienna is a great option. This city is a living, breathing FAIRY TALE with its grand palaces, cozy coffeehouses and graceful streets. Take a sightseeing tour: Walk through the old town, indulge in a slice of Sachertorte. Vienna is great for the person who wants a balance of relaxation and adventure without feeling rushed, extra bragging rights when it comes to what city they were in (did I mention its the city of music and art?!)
Dolomiti, ItaliaLago d'Iseo, Italia
From the Dolomites, with their snowbound landscapes and sharp mountain air to Lago
d’Iseo. Wintertime here promises gorgeous landscapes with plenty of charming nooks to escape the cold. After a day of easy snowshoeing (or for peak-baggers), snuggle up next to the crackling fire. This cozy little getaway is perfect for anyone who appreciates the winter wonderland and doesn’t mind a few goosebumps.
Canary Islands: Gran Canaria
Gran Canaria If you want a little more sunshine in your life then Gran Canaria is a top option. Beach Babymoons — here at least we hope you will be able to relax… a lot The lifeguards know the water bars. And if you feel like doing some urban exploration, Madrid is only a one-day trip away. Think of it as the best of both: tropical hideaway with a pinch of urban buzz. A lil Spanish-inspired babymoon, who knew!
Hallstatt, Austria
If you need a bit of peace and beauty in your life, the Hallstatt is for you. With an amazing lake that goes all around it and a circle of slopes out yonder, Hallstatt is about perspectives over quietness. Perfect for taking leisurely walks around this tiny town and beautiful countryside. Stepping into that postcard—just make sure to bring your camera!
What sets the perfect babymoon destination apart is what you and your partner find relaxing and enjoyable. Whether you want a dose of sun, snow, or both, these 10 destinations deliver—in style. Pack up the botheration, get your sweetheart in hand, and get set for a memorable timeless run before the new addition of your family.
Babymoon Do's and Don'ts
A babymoon is the perfect occasion to be rewarded before babies make their grand entry into this world, a distinctive trip, and a little warmth. With that in mind, here are a couple of do’s and don’ts to keep in mind as you make your way around this one-of-a-kind sanctuary. Ultimately, it’s time to be about having both fun and relaxation in order to keep things simple and stress-free.
We need to pack appropriate clothing for whatever the weather is expected to be like where we will be traveling.
Babymoon ruined by a 20-degree discrepancy, either hot or cold?? Oops! Checking the weather forecast is everything—I learned this one the hard way. Pack accordingly—either sunscreen and shades or cozy scarves and mittens. This means that you will not be caught off-balance and lose precious time from your holiday, no matter how the weather.
Don’t: Overdo It
Even though the spirit of a babymoon can make you feel superhuman, try to remember that YOU ARE STILL PREGNANT!! I have done this, and my feet & back will tell you that was a mistake. Sometimes going low-key is best, and it’s always good to listen to your body. Go out for a leisurely walk, but save the sightseeing marathon later.
Do: Turn It Into an Adventure If You Dare
So, if you are adventurous enough, then go for it! Being pregnant doesn’t relegate you to a recliner-only chair. Adventure hikes or hot air balloon rides can add a little something extra to your babymoon. Remember to make it something you are comfortable doing and get your doctor’s approval.
No: Think a Babymoon Has to Be Luxurious
A little R&R before the chaos sets in again is a great idea—babymoon or not. The most treasured ones are often the ones in which we would hole up for a while and have the simplest of things. Or, on the flip side, a quaint bed and breakfast or simply anything
casually near the beach can mix as well as should be expected given your comfort. It is important to remind ourselves here that we are talking about closing tickets and bells/whistles should come last.
Action: Figure Out What You Will Eat At Your Final Destination
All inclusiveTravelling is all about food, and when you are pregnant, food becomes the most important part of any trip. I always try my best to check out my dining options ahead of time. From discovering whether there are pregnancy-compliant alternatives to making sure the local food fits with your dietary requirements, a little bit of forethought and research can help you navigate towards days by the sea that prove both gustatorily gratifying and worry-free!
Do not: Pass Up An Invite To Spend Time with your Immediate Family/Best Friend(s)
The best memories are often those that were shared with others.
So instead, take them up on an offer to meet you at your destination for a part of your babymoon. And having a bit of company can make the journey that much more enjoyable! Also, a good excuse to spend time with your partner and surround yourself with the love of loved ones.
So as long as you keep these do’s and don’ts in check, you should be good to go with your stellar babymoon. After all, this is your special time to bond with your family of three before your little brother or sister makes their arrival. Just chill and make some awesome memories!
Is It Safe to Go Abroad?
So, is it fine for me to fly halfway across the world while I am pregnant? I’ve wondered the same thing! Summary: Yes, with some reservations. Just another reason why I need to lean on my doctor before booking anything; they are the true travel experts for baby bumps. Picking a destination with decent healthcare along with keeping yourself updated on travel advisories will not leave you hanging. I just experienced doing the mellow stuff, where I will want to go and spend time. Hydrate, safe medicines, and pregnancy documents in my bag are all I need to travel. If I plan well, I can bounce around as easily as my baby bump. Bon voyage and happy travels!
What is the Best Babymoon Time?
Between the 6th and the 14th week, for me, have been the ideal times to go on a babymoon. Why, you ask? Basically, by then my morning sickness is getting better and my 3rd-trimester sway walk still hasn’t set in. It’s that magical time between weeks 14 and 28 when I pretty much always feel at least OK (this is as good as it gets for me) and can lounge by the backyard pool or walk through swanky Beverly Hills adjacent-ish streets without looking like a beached whale. That makes the dad be closer to me simply by default, and honestly, if I’m going to have any of that pre-baby bliss at all, planning my babymoon should come during this time. Not to mention, who has time for a party post-sleepless nights/diaper duty?
What to Pack for a Babymoon
Packing for a babymoon seems like getting ready to go on a fun little adventure with a pinch of practicality and a hint of pampering. Here is my foolproof list to help ensure you have a great flight:
Stretchy Clothing: Regardless of what the gym is for, I start with stretchy clothing.
The kind that I can still wear with my expanding belly and wear on days when chilling in style is a requirement. I never realized maternity wear could be so snug.
Prenatal Vitamins: Prenatal I take them every night; never forget my prenatal! They’re sort of my own personal daily multivitamins for both me and my baby. And they make me feel like I have just a little bit more magic in my energy levels.
Emergency Supplies: One of the most important things that people should carry is safe medications in their medical kits. Whether it is something to treat mild pain and do pregnancy comfort staring me in the face or my old standbys, I ensure they are pregnancy-safe. Only to find themselves scrambling for a solution when they get that mild headache.
Snacks and hydration: we bring snacks and water. Staying hydrated and having healthy snacks on hand keeps me from having those “I’m starving!” moments. which does wonders for my mindset. Additionally, pregnancy cravings do not often happen at the same time as when a restaurant is open!
Pregnancy Records: I also make sure that I have all my pregnancy records with me. Prenatal records, medical information, and all relevant documents My own customized little Health Record, making sure I have access wherever I am.
Travel Insurance: For me, travel insurance is a must-do every time I travel. In case of any hiccups that may present themselves, be it from a missed flight or an unannounced issue, I have my backup plan. So it is a policy that comes with assurance.
Camera for Photos: And last, but not least, my camera. All of those super cute baby bump photos and lifestyle shots just have to be documented. Forgettin’ about everything, I’ll look back at the memories and say, “Oh wow, you did that, and it looked bomb af.”
Now that I have this packing list, I am all ready for my much-needed and relaxing/fun babymoon! Enjoy the bumpy ride, Tada!!
Babymoon Safety Tips
Thousands of couples take a babymoon every year, but this carefree travel trend can become more enjoyable if you keep safety in mind. I have some great tips to do when you are making the most of those carefree moments before having a baby.
Stay Hydrated and Carry Snacks: Can we say this enough—be free and bring some
water with you? We have an ample supply of water and some healthy snacks too. Nothing ruins a vacation more than a hungry preggo. Believe me, an available granola bar in your purse can make the difference.
Keep Safe Medicine With You Always: Scanning out from the house, I make sure for my pocket that I have a few safe medications that are accepted through my health professional. Since we fill further along the bowel spectrum with all medications, from mild aches to pregnancy-specific issues, having what I need ahead of time alleviates certain stresses. And it also lets me sleep well at night.
Bring Your Hand Full of Pregnancy Paperwork: I mean, who doesn’t travel with a hand full of pregnancy paperwork—prenatal records, emergency contacts, and whatever else? Having something that feels like my very own health insurance policy is there to guarantee my covered status in the event of a twist or a turn arising on the journey.
Seatbelt Space is more or less material, and I have mentioned tips for how to take care of your seatbelt, especially on the road! That is the safest thing for both me and the baby. It was a minor change but a major one in the comfort & safety department.
Now with these quick tips, I can sit back and enjoy my babymoon and feel like I have everything covered. Bon voyage and enjoy your babymoon!!!
Before You Book Your Babymoon
But before I click that “book now” button, it comes with a checklist of how to ensure everything gets streamlined. I get the go-ahead from my doctor, making sure I am able to fly and go wherever it is that I am headed for pregnant me. A safety first brownie, if you will. The next thing I look at is travel restrictions and guidelines because, well, one wants to get up in the middle of the night and pack a suitcase. I also look into the location to make sure it is safe and comfortable for pregnant travelers — less about spending time lounging on a cliff somewhere dangerous and more about finding perfect cozy spots with good medical facilities nearby. Not to mention, never leave behind my sense of adventure and an extra snack or two! Book my Babymoon with Confidence and Excitement By ticking these boxes, you are set for a pre-baby getaway which will never to be forgotten.
If you follow the above tips, I am positive that you have the best babymoon ever! What I discovered is a little preparation and a lot of luxuriating can turn your babymoon into the ideal pre-baby retreat! You know, from checking in on the doctor to grabbing the right snacks for you (cause nobody wants a starving mom-to-be), it is all about ensuring that you are comfortable and secure while having this outdoor getaway. This is your time to relax and make some memories before the baby changes that all. Swim else you will be basking in the sun or strolling through some picturesque city; make sure how to appreciate this every time! Snap a million pictures, enjoy a good night’s sleep, and get ready for the wild ride of raising a child. I hope these tips help you have an amazing babymoon that focuses on relaxation, bonding with your partner, and getting some inspiration for the next chapter!
